Mortifying

a.	1.	Tending to mortify; affected by, or having symptoms of, mortification; as, a mortifying wound; mortifying flesh.
	2.	Subduing the appetites, desires, etc.; as, mortifying penances.
	3.	Tending to humble or abase; humiliating; as, a mortifying repulse.

Adj.	1.	mortifying - causing to feel shame or chagrin or vexation; "the embarrassing moment when she found her petticoat down around her ankles"; "it was mortifying to know he had heard every word" Synonyms: embarrassing
	2.	mortifying - causing awareness of your shortcomings; "golf is a humbling game" Synonyms: demeaning, humbling, humiliating

embarrassing, unpleasant