Genteel

a.	1.	Possessing or exhibiting the qualities popularly regarded as belonging to high birth and breeding; free from vulgarity, or lowness of taste or behavior; adapted to a refined or cultivated taste; polite; well-bred; as, genteel company, manners, address.
	2.	Graceful in mien or form; elegant in appearance, dress, or manner; as, the lady has a genteel person. Law.
	3.	Suited to the position of lady or a gentleman; as, to live in a genteel allowance.

Adj.

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genteel - marked by refinement in taste and manners; "cultivated speech"; "cultured Bostonians"; "cultured tastes"; "a genteel old lady"; "polite society" Synonyms: cultured, polite, civilised, civilized, cultivated

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